Me as an introvert! And what I believe about introvert and extrovert-ness.

Hello! It has been a crazy March.   Finally I have time and energy to write a blog post.  If you follow my Instagram you would know I went to VAMFF and my friend visited me from Hong Kong.  Now I am sick with a virus but all I need is rest so please don't worry about me.  

Ok! Let's start this blog post.  I'm an introvert and il start my showing this picture below of what to do to piss introverts off.  And I believe in this 100%

Yes i hate people thinking I am shy and sensitive and being quiet is lack of confidence.   And all the other points above.  I do have a voice and I enjoy using it.  I do like being social but honestly if someone keeps talking and I'm bored of the conversation I just want to leave so I might drift off and think of ways to get out of the conversation.  

I believe there is a spectrum of "introvert people" and "extrovert people".  There is also ambivert.  

My reason for the belief in the spectrum is because people who are introverted are not all the same level and same as extroverted people.  There are many tests online you can do to see where you are on the spectrum. 

My first thought of doing this blog post is because people think you must be loud and outspoken to be confident.  But that's not true.  I have confidence in myself.  I spoke briefly about this with my friend Natalie.   She's quiet but does talk and enjoys being social.  She's an introvert like me but I feel we are on different levels.  At VAMFF we did a GIF on a swing together and we both believe if we weren't confident we wouldn't do it because we would worry if someone is looking at us and laughing etc but as two confident women we don't care and did it.

I found all the pictures for this blog post on Instagram.  I've learnt to care less in life if people think I'm weird then it's a compliment. If they aren't nice I just think maybe they're having a bad day or something.  There's usually a story behind the reason they're not nice.   

Confidence:

My definition of confidence is "Whether you're loud or quiet, you can have confidence in yourself that your are amazing and beautiful and can do the best to your abilities in life."  

Okie dokie! Time to finish the blog post.   This was fun.  Just remember whether you are am introvert, extrovert or ambivert or anywhere in between, you can be confident. Your are the only person in the universe who can be you (oh so cliche).  Who cares what others think and/or say, do what you want to do.  Be confident!

Thanks for reading and contact me if you want.  I would love to hear your thoughts. 

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